The Mom Friend
Snacks, chargers, and 'text me when you're home.'
- Caring
- Prepared
- Protective
In one sentence
The Mom Friend is the group member who looks after everyone: snacks, safety checks and making sure people get home.
The deeper read
The group survives every night out because of you.
Spare charger, plasters, water bottle, a mental list of who's allergic to what, and the 'did you get home?' text at 2am.
People trust you completely and come to you when they need looking after. The flip side is that nobody gets to look after you, partly because you keep handing out snacks before they can try.
Let the group return the favor; they genuinely want to. Chaos Agents need your first-aid kit, and Lurkers are happy to sit on the sofa with you once the party's over.
In relationships
If your group has a Mom Friend, take the next 'text me when you're home' duty yourself and send it to them first.
- ✦ Keeps everyone safe
- ✦ Remembers what people need
- ✦ Calm in a crisis
- ↗ Let others look after you
- ↗ Worry a little less
Common misconceptions
- Mom Friends are no fun: they just want everyone to have fun safely.
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